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What to wear to funeral services follow closely to those common for general religious services – nothing too short, too tight, or too flashy. Dress code is generally different at each religious establishment. As a rule, though, business casual to slightly dressy should be appropriate at most places.
Many say black is the color to wear for mourning at a funeral, but not anymore. Typically, it’s the family that will be in black. Charcoal gray, navy, and other neutral colors are generally popular. Of course, you can always think about the person you’re remembering, and in celebration of their life, wear a color that represents their personality. Clubbing gear, casual attire, and jeans are not acceptable in this environment. Be respectful to the family and guests by going with a more subtle outfit.
Ladies, a dress with heels is a no-fail item, but dress pants and a nice sweater or top is great options, too. Keep jewelry and accessories to a minimum. This is no place to show off that gigantic sapphire blue cocktail ring you wear out dancing! For men, a suit or sport coat with jeans and nice dress shoes are ideal. If it's spring or summer with warmer temperatures, you may want to bring a light sweater or jacket, especially if you’ll be attending gravesite services.
Men, a suit and tie is a nice way to say goodbye. Slacks and a sports coat will suffice, as well.
Watch the weather forecast. Bring an umbrella if it calls for rain. You’ll want to leave your heels at home if the service includes cemetery, etc.
